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Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom? Sometimes the best foreplay starts hours earlier, with the right kind of adventure, connection, or touch that works with your brain chemistry instead of against it. Let’s talk about the trust, titillate, and touch framework for bonding activities that actually prime your nervous system for desire — […]

Kara Leona joins Weezy to talk marriage, motherhood, OnlyFans, and making decisions the internet doesn’t approve of. Kara shares her side of the split with Guillermo, explains why their problems went deeper than adult content, and clarifies the conversation around her six-figure months. Plus, the double standard between Hollywood nudity and sex work, the comments that actually hurt, new music, and why she’s paying for her own boob job. It’s an honest conversation about providing for your […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!!!Are men really satisfying women in the bedroom, or are they just assuming they are? Why do so many women struggle to climax during sex, and how do you tell your partner they’re not getting the job done? This week on The Hard or Soft Show, we’re joined by special guest @doc_izzy for a hilarious, revealing, and surprisingly educational conversation about sexual pleasure, intimacy, communication, and what men STILL don’t understand about women. Things get […]

Have a question you’ve always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: ⁠sexwithemily.com/ask⁠ Let’s talk about the questions men are too embarrassed to ask about sex… because most of what men learn about sex comes from porn, from friends who are also just figuring it out, or from nothing at all. And then they spend years wondering if they’re broken, performing wrong, or missing something everyone else seems to already know. In this episode I’m answering seven of the most […]

Connie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a sex-party guardian, and the wild encounters that put everyone’s boundaries to the test. Plus, degradation that feels a little too personal, London versus New York nightlife, and why Hollywood keeps getting kink wrong. Beneath the outrageous stories is a real conversation about consent, accountability, and knowing your […]

Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you need to know about giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously, including the modifications that turned me from a 69 skeptic into someone who actually gets it. I'm also answering your oral sex questions, from what to do when size makes a blowjob feel impossible to the listener who […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12 ] and joining A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for some back-in-New-York banter [ 02:49 ]. The crew recaps CultureCon with the Spill app [ 05:07 ], praising its sexual-health advocacy while critiquing event logistics [ 07:45 ], panel value and press-run fatigue [ 11:30 ], and ticket prices—with a vodka debate mixed […]

Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body. In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, and responsiveness. We’re talking about why starting slow matters, how to read the signals your partner is giving you, what it means to follow the “yes,” and why feedback like “don’t stop” or […]

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Eddin for a wild conversation about dating, intimacy, non-monogamy, and what happens when friendship and parenthood start to overlap. From debating whether two friends can have a baby together without catching feelings, to navigating jealousy, emotional intimacy, and the unspoken rules of open relationships, the crew gets into just how complicated modern relationships can really be. Plus, they talk dating women versus men, whether bad sex can actually keep […]

Let's talk about why foreplay might be the most misunderstood thing in your sex life… because the way most couples think about it is exactly backwards. In this episode I'm breaking down why foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom and what to do when your partner goes straight to penetration every single time, when the sex has gone stale and neither of you knows how to say it, when one person won't reciprocate, and when a medical situation forces you to get creative in all the best ways. If […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭 First, we get into love and vulnerability. Have you ever wanted to say “I love you” but stopped yourself? Even worse…have you ever finally said it and gotten NOTHING back?! We also talk about the little nonsexual things your partner does that […]

Would you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle. From confusing good co-parenting with romantic compatibility to sacrificing your happiness for financial stability, the ladies unpack when choosing yourself means choosing neither. Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow […]

Sexual communication isn’t a sign that something is wrong—it’s how sex gets better. When your partner says “slow down,” “stay right there,” or asks for something different, they aren’t rejecting you. They’re giving you the roadmap to what feels good for them right now. In this episode, I’m talking about how to create the safety to give and receive direction during sex without anyone getting defensive, embarrassed, or shutting down. We’ll explore why learning basic anatomy […]

Mandii B and Weezy welcome Olivia and Kelly to talk about their 19-year age gap, the eight-hour drive that started their love story, and finding a connection neither of them expected. From coming out later in life and navigating intimacy to handling strangers who mistake them for mother and daughter, the couple shares what their relationship looks like beyond the comments. The conversation also gets heated over surrogacy, reproductive choices, and LGBTQ+ representation in schools, with Olivia […]

Try the We-Vibe Nova to explore internal and external stimulation together, no experience necessary: https://bit.ly/wevibenovadual Let's talk about what actually gets in the way of connected, present, pleasurable sex… because it is almost never what you think it is. In this episode I'm taking live listener calls from people who are done settling for sex that feels disconnected, performative, or just plain stuck. A divorced mom of two who spends every sexual encounter watching herself from […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂 We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you have for your partner? And what happens when you’re with somebody whose sex drive is MUCH higher […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ], the crew questions why “partner” has become a popular label for significant others [ 12:26 ]. They defend personal boundaries while discussing Cardi B swiping away a fan who touched her [ 22:11 ], […]

Great sex isn’t about finding one perfect moment and trying to recreate it forever. It’s about getting curious about what made that moment feel so good in the first place. In this episode, I’m sharing how to talk with your partner about your best sexual memories without turning it into a complaint meeting. We’re exploring the questions that uncover what really turns each of you on: Was it the flirting all day? Feeling unrushed? The freedom, the anticipation, the way you looked at each […]

Carter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men actress shares how she built an international exotic dancing career without taking it all off, explains why masculinity doesn’t erase her womanhood, and challenges the idea that bad men make women gay. Plus, the trio debates a lesbian Mount Rushmore, bisexual dating stereotypes, representation in Hollywood, and […]

Low desire isn’t always about your relationship or something you need to “fix” inside yourself. Sometimes, feeling more connected to your sexuality begins outside the bedroom: with creativity, friendship, novelty, connection, and getting back in touch with the parts of life that make you feel alive. In this episode, I’m talking about why libido is shaped by so much more than sex, how to get curious before diagnosing yourself, and the small ways you can spark eroticism without putting […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂 From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly […]

On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether marriage and baby plans should come before financial stability.  Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and […]

Let's talk about five things that are quietly killing your sex life that have absolutely nothing to do with attraction, technique, or how much you love your partner… because after 20 years of helping people improve their sex lives, I can tell you we are way too quick to assume low desire means something is wrong with us. Sometimes the conditions around your sex life just suck. In this episode I'm giving you five very unsexy tips that can make your sex life a whole lot better, and I promise at […]

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii opens up about her childhood and the experiences that shaped her work, while the ladies unpack emotional abuse, taking accountability, friends getting too involved, and why flowers after cheating don’t equal changed behavior. Plus, they discuss non-monogamy, forgiveness, femininity, and finding love without losing […]

What if the reason you keep having the same fight with your partner isn't that you don't love each other, it's that you're speaking completely different love languages? You may be giving love exactly the way you'd want to receive it, while your partner is waiting for something totally different. In this throwback episode, I'm breaking down the five love languages, acts of service, gift giving, physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation, and how understanding yours (and your […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes. We get into why American women seem to love British men, which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English women have that same energy for American men. Then we’re talking about what actually makes someone […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics. After previewing the episode [ 00:38 ], the crew debates a mango recall and food safety scares [ 03:50 ], questioning whether deregulation and Project 2025 could contribute to broader disruption [ 08:00 ]. After jokes about honorary degrees [ 11:32 ], they discuss Fivio Foreign’s baptism and church hypocrisy [ 13:56 ], before […]

Let's talk about why initiating sex in your relationship started feeling like a test… because somewhere along the way, that moment of reaching for your partner stopped feeling like closeness and started feeling like a pass-fail question hanging in the air. Am I about to get rejected? Am I going to disappoint them? And when initiation starts to feel that way, both people stop doing it. In this episode I'm giving you five concrete steps to change the whole dynamic, starting with one reframe […]

Mandii B and Weezy sit down with acclaimed writer and cultural critic Jamilah Lemieux to discuss her book Black Single Mother and unpack the stigma surrounding single motherhood, dating, co-parenting and blended families. Jamilah recalls discovering that her ex was engaged shortly after she gave birth, developing a healthy relationship with her daughter’s stepmother and why every woman who wants children should be prepared for the possibility of becoming a single mother. They also debate […]

Let's talk about the sex skills nobody teaches you and why most people are still waiting for their partner to figure it out instead of just saying it out loud… because that's exactly what today's callers are done doing. In this episode I'm taking live calls from people who are done leaving their pleasure up to chance. We've got a 27 year old who wants to learn how to squirt on her own without relying on anyone to do it for her, a couple who wants to bring others into their play but can't […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

If anal play sounds like something you'd have to grit your teeth through, I want to change your mind about one thing first: a painful first try isn't your body's final answer. It's usually a sign something was rushed, unprepared, or out of your control, not proof this isn't for you. In this episode, I'm walking through my five-step, comfort-first framework for exploring anal: getting a real yes before anything starts, setting yourself up for success, warming your whole body up first, moving in […]

Maino joins Mandii B and Weezy to discuss his dating philosophy, why he no longer promises women traditional commitment, and whether actions should matter more than relationship titles. He opens up about sleeping with a pregnant woman, keeping intimate videos, dating ambitious women, navigating non-monogamy, the places New Yorkers should never go while cheating, and his upcoming relationship show, 1-800-Maino. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest […]

Let's talk about what actually happens when real people finally stop holding back in the bedroom… because the best sex education doesn't always come from experts. Sometimes it comes from a husband who spent months asking for something his wife wasn't sure about, or a couple whose 20 year marriage took a very unexpected turn on a dance floor in Anchorage, or a woman who spent years unable to orgasm with a partner and finally got there in the last way she ever expected. In this episode I'm […]

Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom. Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation spanning Atlanta culture, policing, politics, infrastructure, race, hip-hop, gender identity, and the WNBA. After previewing the episode’s biggest stories [ 00:38 ], the crew catches up on their weekends [ 02:43 ] before debating Atlanta’s dining scene, happy-hour culture, restaurant service, and food experiences [ 03:26 ]. Jah’s […]

Let's talk about why you don't want sex with your husband anymore… and why the answer probably has nothing to do with your libido. If you've been lying next to him quietly hoping he doesn't reach for you, and then hating yourself for feeling that way, this episode is going to change the way you see what's actually happening in your body and your relationship. Because the story most women tell themselves at this moment is the wrong one entirely. I'm walking you through a four part desire check […]

In this solo episode, Mandii B and Weezy revisit the conversation surrounding marriage, prenups and protecting assets before discussing gift-giving, women paying for their partners and how couples divide travel expenses. The ladies also talk about living together, compromising between New York City and the Catskills, former hookups resurfacing and spinning the block after months apart. Later, they discuss kink-informed therapy, grief, religion, gender identity, therapist responsibility, sexual […]

Can you love one person and still want someone else? Are you and your partner actually on the same page about your relationship rules, or just assuming you are? And is porn really the problem it gets blamed for? In this episode, we’re getting into the conversations couples rarely have out loud, because there’s no single “right” way to do a relationship. The goal is getting honest about your desires, your boundaries, and what you’ve actually agreed to together. If you’ve been […]

Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom. Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀 Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

Let's talk about the five lies about men and sex that might be quietly destroying your marriage… because most couples aren't fighting about sex. They're fighting about connection, rejection, and feeling unseen, and nobody ever gave them the language to say that out loud. In this episode I'm breaking down the five most harmful myths about male sexuality that I see playing out in long term relationships over and over again, from "he just wants sex" to "men don't take rejection personally." Once […]

Mandii and Weezy are joined by certified sex and relationship coach, board-certified sexologist, and registered nurse Bryanna Gená for an honest and hilarious conversation about purity culture, ethical non-monogamy, and what relationship labels are supposed to mean. Bryanna explains why opening a relationship will not repair the damage caused by cheating, how emotional intimacy can complicate casual sex, and why someone who says they “don't like labels” may simply be misaligned with what […]

Chicago and Philadelphia showed up big for the Best Sex Ever tour, and I couldn't get to every question live. So here's the rest. We're getting into the real first move before opening up a marriage, what alcohol actually does to your libido, and why your body tightening up mid-sex is information, not a red flag. Plus how to ask for foreplay in a way that actually lands, the cuddle trap where touch always seems to lead to sex whether you want it to or not, and a low-pressure way into kink and […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straight men, Denhims music career and how he likes living in NY, the toxic inspiration behind some of the […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring politics, current events, media, sports, internet culture, and accountability. Mandii opens the show by previewing another packed episode [ 00:38 ]. After introducing the producers and celebrating a birthday [ 03:02 ], the crew eases into the conversation with playful banter about Spanish language skills, cultural identity, […]

Let's talk about what actually happens when desire disappears in a long term relationship… because most people assume their libido is just gone, or something is broken in their relationship, when the truth is usually something completely different. In this episode I'm breaking down how desire actually works, why spontaneous desire is mostly a myth for couples past the honeymoon phase, and the one simple 20 minute practice you can try this week to start feeling connected again without forcing […]

Killah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating men for their potential, and why lifestyle compatibility can matter more than a paycheck. The trio debates body counts, dating 9-to-5 workers, male best friends with house keys, the lack of attractive men in Atlanta, and how porn can affect pleasure. Killah Bee also reveals why she once tried dating women, Weezy shares a […]

For 20 years, people have asked me the same questions: what's the best position, how do I get better oral sex, is anal sex supposed to hurt. And honestly? I still love answering those. But after two decades of doing this podcast, I've realized something. People rarely come to me with the real problem. Underneath the sex question, there's almost always shame, rejection, resentment, or the big one: "am I normal?" In this episode, I'm doing something I've never done before going back through 20 […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different climax spots in the vulva, how many holes does the vulva have, why Courtney came back to the show, […]

Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse**  Mandii and Weezy reflect on high school reunions, homeownership, motherhood, and whether a $250,000 dream wedding is worth the price. This week’s listener ended a 10-year relationship with her high school sweetheart after years of feeling unappreciated and a frightening physical altercation. Now she wonders if her intense new romance is genuine love or a trauma response as she considers moving in and getting matching tattoos after only three months. Send us […]

Let's talk about where the line actually is when it comes to cheating… because most couples never have this conversation until it's too late. In this episode I'm sitting down with licensed holistic psychologist and trauma expert Scott Lyons to unpack what cheating really means in the digital age, from liking thirst traps and DMing an ex at 2am to full on affairs and everything in between. I'm also sharing something I've never talked about publicly: I'm a reformed cheater, and I'm getting […]

Matchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a vetted play party, and the differences between kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Shae opens up about healing from church hurt and sexual trauma, practicing responsible nonmonogamy, having sex without emotional attachment, skipping aftercare, and using sex magic and orgasmic manifestation. The ladies also unpack a shocking […]

Let's talk about the small habits quietly killing your connection…  because most relationships don't fall apart from one big betrayal, they drift apart from the little things we let slide every day. In this episode I'm breaking down the biggest mistakes I see couples make over and over, from protecting your partner from the truth to keeping appreciation stuck in your head instead of saying it out loud, and giving you a practical workaround for each one. I'm also answering your live questions […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black women, warming the booty hole up for penetration, recycling nudes and the best camera tricks to take […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring American politics, relationships, self-defense laws, free speech, travel, race, and celebrity culture. The episode opens with a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:38 ], before the full crew checks in and shares stories about travel mishaps, delayed flights, and the ever-changing airline experience […]

Throwback to another one of my favorite conversations! Have you ever wondered where the line actually is between loyalty and betrayal? In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Scott Lyons to unpack the messy, subjective world of infidelity in 2025. We get into the questions couples almost never ask each other… is porn cheating, is a flirty DM cheating, is fantasizing about someone else cheating… and why avoiding these conversations is often what leads to bigger ruptures down the line. I also get […]

Mandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break down financial due diligence before marriage, the risks of combining debt and assets, buying a house before the wedding, expensive ceremonies, bringing romantic partners into a company, workplace attraction and whether image plays a role in business success. The conversation also turns to OnlyFans, the business of sex, […]

In this episode, I'm busting the biggest myths that are quietly running your relationship and your intimate life… the idea that men want it all the time, that women don't think about it nearly as much, that low libido means something's broken, that toys replace your partner, that your partner should just know what you like without you ever saying it out loud, and more. I'm walking through each one and replacing it with what's actually true, plus practical tools you can use tonight: how […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know that she is married but open, Tahoe and his trash d*ck days, the guys experiences with women that […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode, somatic practitioner Dolly Josette (aka The Pleasure Muse) is teaching us something that changed my life… how to actually listen to what our bodies are trying to tell us. We walk through a body anchor meditation to help you find your most grounded position, then move into what Dolly calls the vulva hug and cock cradle, a practice that has nothing to do with arousal and everything to do with presence, safety, and building trust with your own body. If you've ever felt […]

On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex, dating, disability, and the search for real intimacy. Joshua opens up about losing his virginity to a sex worker, spending years in transactional sexual relationships, navigating dating in a wheelchair, and why he has never experienced a traditional romantic relationship. He also gets candid about wheelchair sex, threesomes, […]

Throwback to one of my favorite conversations! That "spark" you're chasing? It might not be attraction… it might be a trauma response. I sat down with Dr. Scott Lyons to break down the difference between real, sustainable chemistry and what he calls the "trauma tingle,” that hyper-magnetic pull toward someone that actually has more to do with old wounds than genuine connection. We get into why the honeymoon-phase spark always fades (it's biochemistry, not a sign something's wrong), why […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open to sharing your partner and the scale of boundaries that people place on such activities, the […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy, politics, sports, race, and misinformation. The episode opens with Mandii's monologue and a preview of the week's biggest conversations [00:57 ], before A-King introduces Dreamville's new 144-page print magazine, The Falloff [ 02:28 ]. The crew celebrates the publication's commitment to long-form hip-hop journalism and […]

Today, we're diving into pillar four of Sex IQ: self-knowledge. This is the pillar that ties everything together, because once you understand your body (embodiment), your health, and how to collaborate with a partner, the real magic happens when you actually know what turns you on. I'm breaking down core erotic desires using Jack Morin's erotic equation: the struggle we overcame plus the triumph on the other side often reveals exactly what turns us on most. We'll talk about the pleasure thieves […]

On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming love, Anwar’s viral appeal, pets interrupting intimacy, robots, aliens, and why people might be scarier than both. The conversation gets deeper as they unpack friendship breakups, messy behavior, political differences, family dynamics, Pride Month, mom shaming, boundaries, and identity, before jumping into “We […]

In this episode, I'm going back to my 20s and telling you everything I wish someone had told me about sex back then. The reality is that almost nobody has a clue in their 20s, and we're all just figuring it out together. I talk about why I confused being validated with actually being desired, why I thought pleasure was someone else's job instead of my own responsibility, and how much shame was quietly running my entire sex life. I also get into why attraction alone was never enough to sustain a […]

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon and Yesssterday some questions. ENJOY!Socials:Markel@TheRealMarkel on instagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on […]

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at […]

In this episode, I'm covering the fifth pillar of Sexual Intelligence: self-acceptance. This is the pillar that ties everything else together, because no matter how embodied, healthy, collaborative, or self-aware you are, none of it lands if you can't accept yourself as you are right now. I'm talking about the "pleasure thieves" that steal our self-acceptance, like comparison, judgment, and perfectionism, and why so much of our sexual shame was programmed into us before we even knew what was […]

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black identity, race, parenting, religion, celebrity culture, and the social issues shaping today's headlines. The episode opens with discussions surrounding the 2028 presidential landscape and speculation about Kamala Harris' political future [ 02:52 ], before the crew reflects on the Fourth of July and the complicated […]